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How To Have A Hallucination Orgasm

The doubt is probably seeping through your mind as you read the title of this article, “How much acid did he take before bringing himself to climax?” Fair question, every one of my friends has asked me the same thing! First of all, I wasn’t having sex. I was on a body de-armoring retreat run by the awesome Mr. Andrew Barnes. One moment for a shout out to this man who has worked his back side off for over well over a decade to give profound opportunities to the people to experience new levels of what it means to live in a human body. What is...

Prostate Sex. How To Have Prostate Orgasms.

Charlie Glickman PhD has been a sexuality educator for over twenty years. He teaches workshops on a wide range of topics, including sex-positivity, prostate sex, sex & shame, gender & masculinity, sexual orientation, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual practices such as prostate play, anal sex, pegging, sex toys, BDSM, and polyamory. Charlie is certified as a sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. We talk to him about prostrate sex! Is prostate sex play going...

Tantra Tips | How To Use The Energetic Body For Better Sex

We live in a world where we are so in our heads all of the day. So many of us are working on the computer, driving to work, on our phones... our culture is not very good at being grounded in our bodies. It's time for some top tantra tips to help us out! We have seen a huge rise in yoga and tantra in the past decade and this is really important to get our consciousness back in our bodies. Dance is also incredibly important to do this and we have seen a rise in more conscious dancing modalities such as 5 rhythms and also cacao infused dance...

Want To Swap Genders For The Day? You Can With New Technology.

The day was going to come soon and now we can do it! We can now swap genitals for the day. Check out this video where two people of the opposing genders check out each others naughty bits as if they were their own. Are you interested to know what it might be like to: - See some breasts on your chest? - Not see your penis/see a penis down there? The future is here and now you can probably do it. I wonder what it would be like to have sex with one of these on... hmm! Do you like it? Would you try it? Let us know below! BIG NEWS: Raw Attraction...

Oral Sex (For Her). 9 Tips To Enjoy Oral Sex.

Note - after you've read this make sure your partner reads the how to eat pussy article so that everybody is winning with oral sex! It's OK – you're not the only one who finds oral sex a little awkward. In fact, having your partner go down on you can be really challenging. You would think that receiving the delicious pleasure of your partner's tongue on the inner most parts of your delicate folds would be easy, right? But it can actually bring a lot of emotion to the surface. It can trigger insecurities, intense vulnerability,...

How To Make Her Squirt | Tips From A Pro Squirter

In this post, we look at how to make her squirt. We are guide by Jacq Jones, sex educator So, let's get ready to ejaculate all over the place! Visit Jacq's website at Sugartheshop.com Let's start. Where is the g spot? The first thing we need to know when we want to know how to make her squirt is where the g spot is. The g spot is the key to female ejaculation. Every person that was born with a clitoris and a vagina, has a g spot. One of the things that is really important about the g spot (especially when I was growing up) there was a lot of...

Raw Attraction Views & Policy On Sexuality, Marriage, & More

This page explains Raw Attraction Magazine's views and policy on certain points of contention in the world of love, sacred sexuality, and relationships. Male Ejaculation Policy There is a lot of conflicting opinions about the amount of times a man should ejaculate each month. Tantra teachers will say that they ejaculate once or twice a year, whereas health experts claim ejaculating 21 times per month help reduce the risk of prostate cancer. But the claims are not substantial and the link between ejaculation and risk of cancer is speculative...

Soul Sex. Your Guide On How To Have Soul Sex!

hilst I was in New York this month, I met a gorgeous woman and we had an exciting few days together having deeply invigorating soul sex. A few days after I left New York she sent me this (the greatest message I’ve ever received): Hi, Honestly, this past weekend really surprised me and changed everything for me. I wasn't expecting it. You have such a strong, sweet presence. You're calm, intuitive, vibrant, and accepting. You very much are a man. When you said you always feel like you control a room and are the...

How To Eat Pussy Like A King!

How To Eat Pussy In this article on the art of pussy eating we interview our resident lesbian on how to eat pussy like a king (or queen!) If you need help pleasing the guys, don't forget our how to give divine a blowjob article 😉   Lizzie, is there more than one-way how to eat pussy? Personally, I don’t think so. I find oral the quickest way to make a girl climax, so that’s why I do it! Okay... let's go through it step by step...how do you eat pussy like a king (or queen)?   Step One. How To Eat Pussy. Sweet cunninglingus. How I love it!...

Anal Sex How To | 5 Myths & Truths Of Anal Sex

A lot of misinformation about anal sex exists. We all need an anal sex how to guide. If you don’t know the facts, you might avoid what could be a pleasurable and intimate experience, or you could end up hurting yourself or your partner! We uncover the truth about those myths and offer advice to have awesome anal sex! An Anal Sex How To Guide Myth #1: It Hurts. Truth #1: It Doesn't Hurt If You Do It Right. Actually, anal sex shouldn’t hurt if you’re doing it right. Pain is your body’s way of telling you that something is wrong, so you need to...

How To Control Your Ejaculation

This article is based on an interview conducted and recorded with Israel Kanner on November 14, 2013. Israel is a Tel Aviv-based coach who teaches clients to achieve self- understanding and mastery of life through the body. Website: www.israelkanner.com. Full disclosure: He is also this author’s partner, in life and in bed. This article is all about how to control ejaculation. It all began with a disgruntled female lover. After a kettlebell-related back injury in the winter of last year, the sex life of Israel Kanner took an unceremonious...

How To Be Better In Bed For Him

How to be better in bed for him. In this awesome guide we asked seven sexually experienced men what it takes to get them hot under the collar about a woman in the bedroom. Here is what they said! Guys, if you want your guide go to the How To Be Better In Bed For Her here. Tom Taber, 45. How To Be Better In Bed For Him. For me, the answer to the question "how to be better in bed for him?" starts with ... her beauty, her openness and her desire. I'm initially attracted to women by her looks and the way she carries herself, but I desire much...

Relationship Advice For Men

This relationship advice for men article comes from our podcast with Bryan Reeves. This article gives great relationship advice for men! Steve: How do we create a container for our women to blossom and allow ourselves to blossom? How do we structure that?  Bryan: Man, that's the billion dollar question. It's a big question. I don't think there's necessarily a prescription, I think first what we've got to get clear about, and this is just very specific to each person, because it's not a man/woman thing, it's not a penis/vagina thing, which I...

Your Perception Of Me Is A Reflection Of You

Your perception of me is a reflection of you; my reaction to you is an awareness of me. This is one of the most profound truths you will find in human connection and it comes up in the mirror of your most intimate relationships. Let’s break it down even further and we’ll focus it in on our most intimate relationships. If you feel great about you partner then this is a reflection of your inner world – your inner world is in harmony. If you feel your partner is an childlike idiot and you have feelings of dislike towards them then there is...

Are You In The Right Relationship?

How do you know when you’re in the perfect relationship? What ticks the boxes? Would you recognise the right relationship if you had it? Psychologist Robert Sternberg did. For a relationship to skyrocket in the best way possible, he believed that it needed to include three elements, in pretty much equal measures: Intimacy, Commitment and Passion, the points of the perfect love triangle. The Right Relationship Triangle This is the ‘up close and personal’ aspect of a right relationship. Intimacy is sharing, communication and openness. It means...

The Internal Clitoris Ring Could Be The Perfect Gift

The Internal Clitoris is not something we remember being taught at school so why not buy your beloved this precious piece of jewellery to help them understand the full beauty and power of the clitoris? This is the "Clitoring" by Penelope Jones. We kind of adore it. The sweet little nubbin and the internal legs that are now on external display. If we believed in Valentines as a festival of love, we'd definitely be buying this for our loved ones. What do you think? Tell us in the comments...

Best Relationship Advice | Learn The 9 Fundamentals For All Relationships

Here are our fundamentals and the best relationship advice we could possibly give - and these are the foundation of our teachings at the University of Love & Sexuality. You can get a free sample course if you click here. So, here goes: The Best Relationship Advice, Ever. The 9 Fundamental Pillars Of All Relationships   1. Self Love “You have to love yourself because no amount of love from others is sufficient to fill the yearning that your soul requires from you” Dadansky. Self Love is the foundation upon everything else is built. If you...

Relationship Is The Greatest Teacher

Looking back, I can clearly see that the previous relationships that I experienced reflected my own internal frame of reference – the dominant ideas, wishes and emotions in my mind. As I’ve learned… projection makes perception. “Men always let women down, relationships don’t work out, the woman has to do everything… etc… etc…” The age-old story of my parents being played out again and again in my mind; reinforced throughout the relationships I had. I would ask myself, “But I did everything in my power to avoid being like them, what happened?”...

What The Toltecs Can Teach You About Love

The Toltec culture is an archaeological Mesoamerican culture that dominated a state centered in Tula, in the early post-classic period of Mesoamerican chronology (800 - 1000 CE). The Toltecs were known throughout Mexico as "women and men of knowledge." In his book, The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship, Don Miguel Ruiz uses Toltec wisdom to guide us to a better understanding of ourselves and love. Ruiz says that the Toltec people were scientists and artists who formed a society to explore and conserve the spiritual...

How To Get More Presence NOW

London Faerie is a purveyor of authentic desire working in London, Berlin and Prague. His practice is an intoxicating blend of BDSM, Tantra, shamanic healing and psychodrama that gives you permission to be who you truly are in every area of your life. Being here fully feels amazing. When we're truly present we feel more alive, we connect effortlessly with ourselves and others and we stop worrying about anything that isn't happening right now. It's no surprise that so many teachers - whether they're offering Tantra, conscious kink, breathwork...

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How To Become A Submissive

Lily Black is an alternative model from London, Ontario in Canada. She enjoys reading, doing puzzles, playing sports - primarily basketball, watching movies, and just about anything outdoors. Lily is also a submissive. Hi Lily, tell us about the dominant/submissive lifestyle... Is it something that reinforces masculine dominance and female submissiveness? When talking about domination/ submission I think the most important factor to stress is that these are always consensual arrangements. A person willingly chooses to submit him or herself to...

How To Eat Pussy Like A King!

How To Eat Pussy In this article on the art of pussy eating we interview our resident lesbian on how to eat pussy like a king (or queen!) If you need help pleasing the guys, don't forget our how to give divine a blowjob article 😉   Lizzie, is there more than one-way how to eat pussy? Personally, I don’t think so. I find oral the quickest way to make a girl climax, so that’s why I do it! Okay... let's go through it step by step...how do you eat pussy like a king (or queen)?   Step One. How To Eat Pussy. Sweet cunninglingus. How I love it!...

Prostate Sex. How To Have Prostate Orgasms.

Charlie Glickman PhD has been a sexuality educator for over twenty years. He teaches workshops on a wide range of topics, including sex-positivity, prostate sex, sex & shame, gender & masculinity, sexual orientation, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual practices such as prostate play, anal sex, pegging, sex toys, BDSM, and polyamory. Charlie is certified as a sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists. We talk to him about prostrate sex! Is prostate sex play going...

How To Give A Blowjob [THAT WILL BLOW HIS MIND]

How To Give A Blowjob After our how to eat pussy article, we thought we better do one to benefit the guys. In this interview with Ella, we speak about how she learned her expertise on how to give a blowjob that blows his mind. Ella, tell us about your relationship and how porn helped you gain “sexpertise” in certain areas? In the last two years I’ve had great success with using pornography as a learning tool to facilitate bedroom activities, especially skills in how to give a blowjob. In relationships, having the freedom to explore each other...

Soul Sex. Your Guide On How To Have Soul Sex!

hilst I was in New York this month, I met a gorgeous woman and we had an exciting few days together having deeply invigorating soul sex. A few days after I left New York she sent me this (the greatest message I’ve ever received): Hi, Honestly, this past weekend really surprised me and changed everything for me. I wasn't expecting it. You have such a strong, sweet presence. You're calm, intuitive, vibrant, and accepting. You very much are a man. When you said you always feel like you control a room and are the...

How To Have A Threesome (And Enjoy It!)

Every week I ask the participants of my sex and desire group to name their top unfilled fantasy and every week half of them blurt out, “A threesome!” But, how to have a threesome that is successful? That is the question. Ah, yes… the ménage a trois. That mystical yet intimidating experience with twelve limbs and multiplying genitalia that not only involves more fingers than you know what to do with—but also triple the feelings to get hurt. But take heart, adventurous soul. You don’t need to navigate the elusive three-way (or more-way!) in the...

How To Communicate In A Relationship

Communication is the cornerstone of a good relationship. We’ve all had experiences where communication between two people has broken down, often irreparably. It’s time to change course and become better communicators. In this interview, we will learn how to communicate in a relationship. We speak to Ken Blackman, Ken is the Lead Orgasmic Meditation Instructor for OneTaste. OneTaste offers courses and coaching in Orgasm and everything that goes with it.  To find out more, visit OneTaste.us. Hi Ken. We all realize the great communication is...

Polyamory: What Is It Really Like?

Dayne is an alternative model, and an erstwhile anthropologist. She lives in Denmark with her husband of one year. Her hobbies include cosplay, gardening, polyamory, and reading sci fi and fantasy. We speak to Dayne about polyamory. Polyamory is the practice, desire or acceptance of having more than one intimate relationship at a time with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. Polyamorous arrangements are varied, reflecting the choices and philosophies of the individuals involved. Sex is not necessarily a primary focus in...

You can only fuck yourself & other notes

Benjamin Smythe takes a spiritual look at attraction... I touch a nipple or a gold doorknob with my fingertip. This does not create a new phenomenon, but rather takes an existing phenomenon and shapes it into fingertip touching nipple or doorknob.  When I remove my finger, there is no change to the absolute inevitability of phenomenon. Whatever is occurring is a single occurrence no matter how it appears. I cannot do anything to spoil the universe. Territory violations are wrong in that they are an inconvenience. That’s all. There is no...

What To Do When A Man Needs Nothing From You

Lauren Sheehan is the founder of www.femininerhythm.com and a master Art of Feminine Presence teacher. The man who needs nothing from you... sounds like a mythical creature doesn't it? Depending on who you are it can sound like a blessing or a curse. I had a 4 month relationship with one such man and it created a foundation for one of the most profound transformations of my life. I know this because for the first time in my life, I am single and I feel full. I'm not searching for the next man. I'm not scrambling to manifest a great love so...

How to get more than a kiss on a date

Kisses have the power to intrigue and inspire. One kiss can easily turn into two. It can heat things up and turn things on. A kiss can be the start of an amazing night in bed or a passionate relationship.  But it can also lead to a polite "Good night," followed by a "Thanks but no thanks," message the next day. Part of what makes the difference is physical. Moving your tongue fast, slow, deep or shallow creates different moods and sensations. Your enjoyment creates more spark than if you're indifferent. These seem pretty obvious. But there is...

Do you tell others how many people you slept with?

Good sex, great sex is the most intense act between two human beings. Rushed sex, because we didn’t have any for a few weeks/months/years, can become throw away, almost pointless. Young men may have sex for the sake of saying they fucked someone last night to their friends, no matter who she was. Heaven forbid, they might even hire a prostitute to dissipate some of the physical loneliness they feel. For women in many societies, men and other women can be extremely judgmental if you sleep with too many guys. Many cultures say that if you sleep...

How To Stop Obsessing Over Someone

My mind wouldn’t stray from the thought of her, for months and months and months. My stupid, stupid brain – shut up already. Ooh, I love beating myself up sometimes, caving in to old, repetitive thought processes. Thought process that serves me no purpose whatsoever. “Hmm... I wonder if we’ll see each other again.” “I want to sleep with her so bad.” “I want to know her more, just as a friend.” “I want to spend more time together.” A year ago we had spent a few days together, it was palpably the start of something, it was raw animalistic sex,...

What Is Your Relationship To Sex?

When guys are in their teenage years, they start to associate ‘being cool’ with getting laid. Haven’t lost your v-plates at school yet? Uh oh… you’re not in the cool gang. Getting laid was the coolest thing one could do and it seemed as if it was the only way to transform from worthless to worthy. As guys grow older the relationship to sex changes (hopefully - if the guy is maturing properly). Teenage girls likely grow up with shame around sex. Whether it be from other teenage boys, friends, parents or religion. By all means, this could...

Sometimes It’s Women Who Just Want Sex

The backstory… We meet last summer on a sunny day on a beautifully sunny day; she is dressed beautifully with her super slim stomach out as she walks by. Mmm. I go speak to her, we date the same evening and there is a lot of play and intimacy. We feel completely free together. We spend the next few days together and on the last day I am in town we have explosive, glorious, animal sex in a fit of passion. I love her sexual confidence and openness. I leave and hope we’ll see each other again sometime in the future. I’m sure this happens a lot...

How To Express The Feminine

Sally had been everything Harry had admired in a woman – strong, independent, ballsy, not afraid to go after life.  So why were those exact traits starting to bug him, two years on?  Why did he find himself being profoundly irritated by this woman that he still loved? The strange thing about intimate relationships is that they mix together a cocktail of different factors that have influenced us in terms of who and what we're attracted to.  Some of that is individual – the family we've grown up in, the kind of parenting we received and our own...

How To Be Better In Bed For Him

How to be better in bed for him. In this awesome guide we asked seven sexually experienced men what it takes to get them hot under the collar about a woman in the bedroom. Here is what they said! Guys, if you want your guide go to the How To Be Better In Bed For Her here. Tom Taber, 45. How To Be Better In Bed For Him. For me, the answer to the question "how to be better in bed for him?" starts with ... her beauty, her openness and her desire. I'm initially attracted to women by her looks and the way she carries herself, but I desire much...

Orgasmic Bliss For Women

The female orgasm goes so far beyond a few brief seconds of bliss - the brain can exist in orgasmic states of ecstasy for prolonged periods of time. And even in our sexually liberated era, the quick explosion that most of us are experiencing sexually is only a tiny piece of what is possible for the female body. Why is this necessary rather than a luxurious domain for the few lucky people with enough time and curiosity? Because the human brain needs trance states of release and ecstasy. All traditional cultures had access points to this...

How To Control Your Ejaculation

This article is based on an interview conducted and recorded with Israel Kanner on November 14, 2013. Israel is a Tel Aviv-based coach who teaches clients to achieve self- understanding and mastery of life through the body. Website: www.israelkanner.com. Full disclosure: He is also this author’s partner, in life and in bed. This article is all about how to control ejaculation. It all began with a disgruntled female lover. After a kettlebell-related back injury in the winter of last year, the sex life of Israel Kanner took an unceremonious...

Kink. A Lesson In Surrender.

 recently was in Prague attending a kink workshop. The workshop was run by London Faerie and Ruby May, both experts in the field of kink and BDSM. I came into this not knowing a lot about kink. I thought it was this weird thing where people dressed up in leather pants or pvc and stuck apples in each other’s mouths. To me, it was an alien world and I couldn’t see it having any part in my life. Although I had these preconceptions when I came in on the first day, I was open-minded to anything. I did not know what...

How To Do Sacred Spot Work For Men

Before we start with the how to do sacred spot work for men, let me first tell you about my experience with sacred spot work (this will help give you more context). On a sacred sexuality workshop in Guatemala, there was an opportunity for the men in the group to explore their sacred spot. After three days of deep work on our emotional and energetic selves, we settled into the sacred spot part of the work. We were partnered up with a member of the opposite sex. I was partnered with an angel who held the space perfectly. First, we started with...

How To Relate To The Opposite Sex – The Essential Guide

Hi Andrew. I’ve read your book, and one of the concepts that really called out to me was the concept of the mature masculine and the mature feminine. You also have the immature feminine and the immature masculine. Are we always going to be sitting in one of these boxes? Could you describe how that concept came about and what it means? One of the reasons why I developed the concept is because what I realized happens around the world is there is quite a lot of confusion around what it is to be a male and a female (as in, born with a male body...

Want To Swap Genders For The Day? You Can With New Technology.

The day was going to come soon and now we can do it! We can now swap genitals for the day. Check out this video where two people of the opposing genders check out each others naughty bits as if they were their own. Are you interested to know what it might be like to: - See some breasts on your chest? - Not see your penis/see a penis down there? The future is here and now you can probably do it. I wonder what it would be like to have sex with one of these on... hmm! Do you like it? Would you try it? Let us know below! BIG NEWS: Raw Attraction...

This Japanese Bra Only Unhooks With Love

Wow. The Japanese are the technological masters of this world and this product certainly is funny, whether it truly works or not is up for debate! The way the bra unhooks itself is pretty special. Check it out!

From The Sweet Spot To The G Spot with Karina Velasco

Karina Velasco gives nutrition, cooking, yoga, tantra and sacred sexuality classes and intensives. She offers retreats in Mexico and the United States. She also collaborates as holistic nutritionist, natural foods chef and sacred sexuality speaker on several television shows. She has recently had her best selling book, From The Sweet Spot to the G Spot translated into English. Visit her at karinavelasco.com We speak to Karina about her new book! You’ve had great success with your book in Latin America. Why do you think this is? I think in a...

Sex & Love Mastery Podcast

With 80+ podcasts, and 500,000+ downloads, our life changing interviews have offered insights into love & sexuality like nothing ever before. From the sacred to the kinky, from the spiritual to anal orgasms, and everything inbetween. This 5 minute clip gives you a delicious taste of our expert guests.   We have spoken to world class experts such as Teal Swan, JP Sears, Shashi Solluna, Preston Smiles & Peter Sage.

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Dildo or Dildon’t Buy This As A Gift [Funny!]

Do you struggle when your partner is away? Do you get horny and need stimulation and your lover is not around? We think we have found the perfect solution for you. The wobbling willy is a dildo which you can put your lovers head on the base so you can look at him while you masturbate.  This could be the perfect Christmas or birthday gift for your girlfriend.  All you need to do is send a photo of yourself to wobbling willy and they will turn your photograph into a 3D sculpture and put that on the end of a dildo for you. Just remember to label...

How Online Dating Changed The Landscape Of Relationships

The Internet has changed a lot of things. It's changed the way we communicate (I now try and communicate solely through GIFs).             It's changed the way we consume entertainment. It's changed everything and has especially changed the way we date. Some of the best dating sites have made us extremely lazy with the opposite sex. Tinder being the prime example. Swipe right. Swipe left. Get in or out of my bed, basically. Our great grandparents must be turning in their graves and yet, we know, if they were alive right now they would be...

Who Or What Is A Committed Man?

This is an excerpt from the book, The Commitment Phobe - It’s not you…it’s him! by Emily Wilcox After years, or even decades, of pushing, pulling and prodding, it’s finally time to release the confusion, pain, frustration and depression and put the “Commitment-Phobe” to rest. As soon as we embrace this new way of thinking, we will serendipitously reign in our knight in shining armor who we have been looking for all along. Now that we are self-loving, deserving, and independent and have a clear understanding of who we are, the Committed Man...

7 Things You’re Doing Wrong On Tinder

Tinder is the dating app taking the world by storm - we even rank it in our best dating sites. If you haven't downloaded it yet, where have you been?If you have then you’ve probably selected your finest Facebook photos, come up with a ‘witty’ tagline and swiped right several times, but for some reason you just can’t seem to get lucky.You want to know why your friends are ankle deep in matches, hook ups and messages while you’re sitting at home in your underwear watching Downton Abbey and eating a Pot Noodle? Read our handy guide detailing...

The Sex Robots Are Coming

Watch this short trailer... ‘The Sex Robots are Coming’ airs next week (30th November 2017) on Channel 4 in the UK. The robots are coming and they are coming to have sex with your husband. Meet April. She’s 5 ' 1 tall, has blonde hair, big breasts, and is one of three sex dolls James (58), takes to bed. James, from Atlanta, Georgia, bought his robots when his wife (36) had to care for her ill mother. James and April now make robot/human love up to four nights a week. His wife, Tine, perhaps surprisingly, has said she’s become used to having...

The Science of Love At First Sight

"It is only in the mysterious equations of love that any logic or reason can be found" John Nash, The famous theorist and mathematician, says in his Autobiography. Science and Love have always been at odds with each other, mainly due to their failed attempts at defining the other using their own identity as a reference. Scientists, spiritual-gurus, engineers, literary greats and philosophers have spent generations trying to find either a bit of Science in Love or a bit of Love in Science. While their efforts didn't lead to conclusive results,...

Best Dating Sites Reviewed by Raw Attraction Magazine

We have all wondered if we could meet someone online, but what are the best dating sites to do it? Are they all made equal? We don't think so! At Raw Attraction, we think online dating is a good thing. It gives us the opportunity to meet someone new without having to leave our house (especially good if it is raining!) We can start dating each other over Skype, and then we can meet to see where it will go. It's great! From our experience, success in dating all comes down to intention. What is it that you are looking for? Are you looking for a...

Do you tell others how many people you slept with?

Good sex, great sex is the most intense act between two human beings. Rushed sex, because we didn’t have any for a few weeks/months/years, can become throw away, almost pointless. Young men may have sex for the sake of saying they fucked someone last night to their friends, no matter who she was. Heaven forbid, they might even hire a prostitute to dissipate some of the physical loneliness they feel. For women in many societies, men and other women can be extremely judgmental if you sleep with too many guys. Many cultures say that if you sleep...

How to get more than a kiss on a date

Kisses have the power to intrigue and inspire. One kiss can easily turn into two. It can heat things up and turn things on. A kiss can be the start of an amazing night in bed or a passionate relationship.  But it can also lead to a polite "Good night," followed by a "Thanks but no thanks," message the next day. Part of what makes the difference is physical. Moving your tongue fast, slow, deep or shallow creates different moods and sensations. Your enjoyment creates more spark than if you're indifferent. These seem pretty obvious. But there is...

10 Questions To Ask A Guy To See If He Is Conscious

Having recently experienced the rather abrupt ending of yet another relationship, I’m determined never to repeat such shock and heart-break – ever again. So I have come up with some questions to see if the next guy I speak to is a conscious guy. This is the second guy who’s done a totally unexpected runner on me in 2 years and I’m beginning to wonder what the heck I’m doing wrong. I processed the end of my last relationship for months; grieved, forgave, let go, healed my wounds, meditated, moved on.  I’ve read so many books and done so many...

Online Dating Tips. 5 Ways To Stay Safe.

The Internet offers a quick solution to meeting new people, but any new person who is a potential love is a potential psychopath too. If you have used one of our recommended best dating sites, these online dating tips will help you survive your dating experience in the real world. Our Online Dating Tips.   1. Examine Their Profile Fully Judging a person based solely on their dating profile pictures is a little like meeting a beautiful babe at a bar; it can be exciting, they’re attractive and you know nothing about them until a conversation...

True Love. How Do We Find It?

The One True Love. It’s that glorious dream that so many poems, books, songs and films are written about. It’s what we’re all dreaming of finding; the person that completes us and that we’ll spend the rest of our lives with. Whether you believe in the one as someone destined to be with you or whether it’s a person that you happen to fall in love and make a life with, the one is what most people are searching for. But how easy is it to really find someone who compliments you perfectly and that you can spend your life with? And how often do...

The Top 3 Must Haves for Dating a Force of Nature Girl

The modern woman is often revealed to be a mix of New Age self-improvement philosophy, bits and pieces of a fractured sense of feminism left over from our mothers' generation, an undercurrent of bitterness over realizing that Disney dreams are a fraud, and an ever-increasing capacity to take care of ourselves without a man, that is both empowering and crippling. "Force of Nature Girl" (FNG), to me, means a woman that is seeking her own alignment with her purpose and is working on being awake in all she does in life. So how do you date a woman...

17 New Age Pick Up Lines [FUNNY]

New Age Pick Up Lines For The Win Guys, if you’re ever out in an ecstatic dance class, a rainbow gathering, or even in your local yoga class, you are going to need some killer lines to be able to get her number. These are the leading edge in new age spiritual pick up lines. So, if you are ever struggling to know what to say, note these one liners down in your note book (it better be a gluten free recycled paper notebook!) We sincerely hope these lines leave you with a better sex and dating life! Let us know how these lines work for you... 1....

What To Do If You Are Ghosted?

What to do if you are ghosted. First off, what does being ghosted mean? It means someone who you wee significantly intimate with (sexual or love based intimacy) simply disappears or tells you to get out their life and never speaks to you again. It's a common occurrence in today's fast paced, 'I can get another date tomorrow' society. Essentially it's adults acting like children because they are in their own trauma and don't have the courage to meet in person or pick up the phone and talk it out. You can see how ridiculous it is when this BBC...

Time Magazine Honors Women Who Spoke Out About Abuse

Time magazine has named "the Silence Breakers" - women who spoke out against sexual abuse and harassment - as its Person of the Year. We commend this action of Time Magazine. The movement is most closely associated with the #MeToo hashtag which sprung up as allegations emerged against Hollywood producer Harvey Weinstein. But Time says the hashtag is "part of the picture, but not all of it". This is the fastest moving social change we've seen in decades," editor-in-chief Edward Felsenthal said. He told NBC's Today programme that it "began with...

Porn For Women. 6 Porn Sites That Will Delight You!

We can't pretend that we don't watch it. We love it. But we are tired of bukkake, we tired of women just being used as sex objects in porn... we need variety in our porn and in this porn for women guide, we are going to give you everything that you need to know. One thing you should know is that we a sex positive, and porn positive (but only the good porn). Most of the free porn on the Internet isn't so good and it caters only for men who want to jack off in under thirty five seconds. Guys, learn how to last longer in bed. Porn for women...

Sexual Performance For Men [Video]

A lot of men get anxiety in the bedroom. We created this video to help men who may have erection difficulties, or anxiety when it comes to having sex. Triambika is one of the world's best experts on tantra and sexual performance for men. This video was created especially for our online University of love and sexuality.  You can get our free sample course when you go here.  We hope this video helps you and if you have any extra questions about sexual performance please leave a comment below.  Notes from the video: >> An erection doesn’t mean...

I Paid Someone To Screw Me With A Strap On (& I Loved It!)

I paid someone to fuck me in the ass and I loved it. This is a letter from a reader. Would you like to write for Raw Attraction Magazine? Click here. After listening to the Raw Attraction Magazine podcast about strap ons, I decided to bite the bullet. I had kind of been interested in doing this for a while and thought about asking ex girlfriends to fuck me with a strap on but I always thought that they would judge my manhood if I did. At this time in my life I am currently single and so I looked up a kink practitioner in my local town. She...

The Top 10 Intentions Before Sex

We don’t often contemplate this question but we have the opportunity to make an intention before any act of sexual intimacy, it creates for much better love making! “It’s time we saw sex as the truly sacred art that it is. A deep meditation, a holy communion and a dance with the force of creation.” Marcus Allen. The word sexuality (like the word God) has been warped by religion, by media and by many other forms of cultural conditioning. It’s time to drop all these programs and release them NOW! It certainly helps if you have a male body, that...

Raw Attraction Views & Policy On Sexuality, Marriage, & More

This page explains Raw Attraction Magazine's views and policy on certain points of contention in the world of love, sacred sexuality, and relationships. Male Ejaculation Policy There is a lot of conflicting opinions about the amount of times a man should ejaculate each month. Tantra teachers will say that they ejaculate once or twice a year, whereas health experts claim ejaculating 21 times per month help reduce the risk of prostate cancer. But the claims are not substantial and the link between ejaculation and risk of cancer is speculative...

Kink Exhibition Hits Prague in August

An exhibition not for the feint of heart or pure of sexuality hit Prague in August. This kink event in Prague pushes you to change the way you think about your own sexuality. The VOAYER exhibition in Prague included naked women who were presented in submissive positions. Some of which, the visitors were able to touch. According to the organizer Mário Petreje, this experience is meant to bring people closer to the community of less common sexual practices, while showcasing the beauty of the human body and sexual experience. We can only praise...

The Power & Pleasure of Kink [Podcast With Seani Love]

In our forth significant podcast about kink, we talk to sex worker of the year Seani Love. Seani works out of London and teaches conscious kink based workshops all over the world. He has great wisdom to impart on us all about this growing niche culture of sex. Transcript coming...

Anal Sex How To | 5 Myths & Truths Of Anal Sex

A lot of misinformation about anal sex exists. We all need an anal sex how to guide. If you don’t know the facts, you might avoid what could be a pleasurable and intimate experience, or you could end up hurting yourself or your partner! We uncover the truth about those myths and offer advice to have awesome anal sex! An Anal Sex How To Guide Myth #1: It Hurts. Truth #1: It Doesn't Hurt If You Do It Right. Actually, anal sex shouldn’t hurt if you’re doing it right. Pain is your body’s way of telling you that something is wrong, so you need to...

Reader’s Story: My Mum Taught Me BDSM

In this interview we talk to 28 year old Nicole about the intimate relationship she had with her mother, and we discover how such a bond between mother and daughter can be incredibly empowering, not only for their relationship but for others too. I hear you had a slightly different relationship with your mother when it came to sex. Can you enlighten us about that a little? My mother has a very enlightened - to use your word - view of sex. Of its meaning. Of the morality surrounding it. She has always considered sex to be empowering, to be...

Fun Sex Positions

On this page you will find many different fun sex positions! The great thing about sex positions is that we can feel different things, access different parts of each other's body, we can have fun, we can be like animal, we can be romantic, we can be almost anything. In this list of 9 positions, we'll show you how to be in each position and guide you to things you could do in each position. It's a great reference point so maybe bookmark this page and come back to it later when you need it. Let us know what you think of these positions in the...

Animalistic Sex Positions

These animalistic sex positions will turn a man (or woman) into a beast! Sometimes in sex we want to be sweet, romantic, loving but sometimes during sex we want to feel like an animal. We want to scratch, bite, pull hair, scream, and slap. There is nothing wrong with this at all! In fact, this is entirely natural. We are animals after all... just animals with the ability to speak and the Internet and stuff. All of these sexual positions are great for getting in an animal mode. We'd love to know which ones you enjoy best. Leave your comments...

How To Make Her Squirt | Tips From A Pro Squirter

In this post, we look at how to make her squirt. We are guide by Jacq Jones, sex educator So, let's get ready to ejaculate all over the place! Visit Jacq's website at Sugartheshop.com Let's start. Where is the g spot? The first thing we need to know when we want to know how to make her squirt is where the g spot is. The g spot is the key to female ejaculation. Every person that was born with a clitoris and a vagina, has a g spot. One of the things that is really important about the g spot (especially when I was growing up) there was a lot of...

Disabilities & Sacred Sexuality Work

This article about disabilities and sexuality was taken from our podcast interview with Raffaello Manacorda. Part of my work is done through an association here in Spain that provides sacred sexuality work to men and women with disabilities or functional diversities. We often work with the generative illnesses such as progressive disorders of the muscular system. Sometimes they are in a wheelchair, usually they are very limiting conditions. The incredible thing is that regular medicine has a lot to offer to these conditions but it never takes...

The Benefits & Dangers of Tantra Workshops

This article is about tantra workshops, tantra tips, and one on one tantra work is about the benefits and dangers of going to workshops and finding a safe and trustworthy practitioner. It is taken from our podcast with Rafaello Manacorda. What is important to look for in a tantra practitioner in one on one work?  First of all it is important to know your intention when you seek one on one work. When you go to see a sacred sexual practitioner. You could be looking for an expanded energetic experience, you are looking for a spiritual...

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