What turns men on?

Well, hopefully you turn your man on!

But there are enough things that turn men on which you did not know about. Here follow 19 surprising things that turn men on.

Knowing what you want

Have you ever heard your man sigh because you could not make up your mind?

Most men can’t stand the fact that women can suddenly change their minds. Men are pretty straightforward, they know what they want when they think about it.

As such it is a huge turn-on for any man when his woman knows what she wants and acts accordingly in order to get what she wants.

A caring partner

Somethings never change. It’s just that caring and nurturing part that men lack that they find attractive in women.

It is a biological turn on that has to do with the fact that caring women will probably make good mothers, and that is what a man is looking for.

When she loves sports

Men like sport and men like women who like sports. Can you talk to him about his favorite sport? Whether it is knowing the difference between Federer and Nadal, Messi or Ronaldo, that little extra knowledge can go a long way.

An accent

Do you have an accent?

Your partner probably loves it. It makes you unique. It sets you apart from the rest.

Natural beauty

Not all men like lots of makeup and dresses. Some men like their women a bit more ‘natural’. For some men it’s a turn-on to see their girlfriends without makeup: she is pure and innocent in that way.

Curves and a soft stomach

Lots of men don’t like woman with six packs. Perhaps they are intimidated. Besides, men love curves. So some thicker hips and a soft stomach are actually things that turn men on.

Fit girls

Men simply love it when a girl takes care of her body. Not just by putting on some make-up, but actually going to the gym and staying in shape. Most men find that women look good in their gym outfits.

When you laugh at his jokes

Your man probably loves it when he makes you laugh. Not just because he gets to see your beautiful smile, but also because it makes him feel good: He thinks he’s got humor and has the ability to make you laugh at will. Men like that sense of control.

Being handy

Surprisingly enough men find it sexy when a woman can use a screwdriver or any other tool. Next time you might want to assemble that Ikea furniture together.

Doing yoga

Being in shape is a huge bonus. Men like their women fit and agile. Many men would never try yoga themselves, but being with a woman who practices yoga has something alluring. Perhaps it’s because of the mystique about yoga and being extremely flexible.

Wearing white underwear, with lace

It has that innocence about it.

A nice piece of underwear with some lace is a definite turn on for men. Especially a white piece of underwear. That just screams innocence and that it pure and special. Matching lingerie is also a huge turn on, but that should not come as a surprise.

Not wearing a bra

Instead of wearing a matching set you could also just ditch the bra. That is actually a huge turn on for many men. When you just walk around the house in a t-shirt and sweatpants, your man might be truly infatuated with you.

Being passionate about something

Passion is contagious.

A passionate woman is truly a sight to behold. It doesn’t even matter what you are passionate about. It could even be that you get all worked up about some girly series that you are watching on net.

Being a good driver

Another surprising one:

Your partner probably loves it when you get behind the wheel and show your driving skills.

Also, it’s kind of cool when he brags about your driving skills against his friends.

Doing it with the lights on

Did your partner ever ask you to keep the lights on while you were having sex? Sometimes doing in in the dark is preferred, but at other times he wants the lights on. Why is that, you ask?

Well, it’s because he can see you better that way. It’s as simple as that.

Dirty talk

Why do men like dirty talk? I’m not sure. Perhaps it’s like that saying “A lady in the street, a freak in the bedroom”. When you occasionally drop some dirty talk your man is reminded about your more base desires, which can be a huge turn-on.

Playing games

Men love to game.

It’s no surprise than that your man will enjoy it when you join for a game of Fifa on his Playstation. (Just don’t beat him, that might cause him to become jealous on your superb Fifa skills.)


Perhaps the biggest turn-on of all is a woman with confidence and strong self-esteem. There is nothing more sexy than a woman who is not afraid to be herself.

Author Bio: Rachel Pace is a relationship expert with years of experience in training and helping couples. She has helped countless individuals and organizations around the world, offering effective and efficient solutions for healthy and successful relationships. Her mission is to provide inspiration, support and empowerment to everyone on their journey to a great marriage. She is a featured writer for Marriage.com, a reliable resource to support healthy happy marriages.


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