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Sexual Performance For Men [Video]

A lot of men get anxiety in the bedroom. We created this video to help men who may have erection difficulties, or anxiety when it comes to having sex. Triambika is one of the world's best experts on tantra and sexual performance for men. This video was created...

How To Heal Your Chakras With Orgasm

Before we dive in and discover how to heal your chakras let's first talk about what chakras are and what they do. Whether you have felt your chakras are not they are there in your body. Some people get caught up and think the word chakra is too "spiritual" and they...

The Top 10 Intentions Before Sex

We don’t often contemplate this question but we have the opportunity to make an intention before any act of sexual intimacy, it creates for much better love making! “It’s time we saw sex as the truly sacred art that it is. A deep meditation, a holy communion and a...

How To Have Safe Sex

How to have safe sex is something everyone should be asking. Condoms are the easiest and first answer but there are other things we have to think about as well. Such as... How Often Should I Get Tested For STI's (Sexually Transmitted Infections)? It seems like a...

Kink Exhibition Hits Prague in August

An exhibition not for the feint of heart or pure of sexuality hit Prague in August. This kink event in Prague pushes you to change the way you think about your own sexuality. The VOAYER exhibition in Prague included naked women who were presented in submissive...

Anal Sex How To | 5 Myths & Truths Of Anal Sex

A lot of misinformation about anal sex exists. We all need an anal sex how to guide. If you don’t know the facts, you might avoid what could be a pleasurable and intimate experience, or you could end up hurting yourself or your partner! We uncover the truth about...

Reader’s Story: My Mum Taught Me BDSM

In this interview we talk to 28 year old Nicole about the intimate relationship she had with her mother, and we discover how such a bond between mother and daughter can be incredibly empowering, not only for their relationship but for others too. I hear you had a...

Fun Sex Positions

On this page you will find many different fun sex positions! The great thing about sex positions is that we can feel different things, access different parts of each other's body, we can have fun, we can be like animal, we can be romantic, we can be almost anything....

Animalistic Sex Positions

These animalistic sex positions will turn a man (or woman) into a beast! Sometimes in sex we want to be sweet, romantic, loving but sometimes during sex we want to feel like an animal. We want to scratch, bite, pull hair, scream, and slap. There is nothing wrong with...

Disabilities & Sacred Sexuality Work

This article about disabilities and sexuality was taken from our podcast interview with Raffaello Manacorda. Part of my work is done through an association here in Spain that provides sacred sexuality work to men and women with disabilities or functional diversities....

The Benefits & Dangers of Tantra Workshops

This article is about tantra workshops, tantra tips, and one on one tantra work is about the benefits and dangers of going to workshops and finding a safe and trustworthy practitioner. It is taken from our podcast with Rafaello Manacorda. What is important to look for...

What Is Sacred Sexuality?

This article about what is sacred sexuality comes from a transcript of our podcast with Raffaello Mancorda. How would you define sacred sexuality? What is sacred sexuality? It's a great question. Sometimes I play with words and instead of saying 'sacred sexuality' I...

Intimate Sex Positions

Get into higher states of ecstasy in these intimate sex positions. Presence is everything when it comes to these intimate sex positions. If you are busy in your mind thinking about an email you have to write, or what you have to do after sex finishes.... then you are...

Best Sex Positions

In this section of the site we showcase over 50 of the best sexual positions to try at home, in the kitchen, in someone else's home, in the garden, on the beach, in a plane, or any other place it is legal to have sex. Not only are we showing these best sexual...

How To Make Her Cum (Orgasm)

The elusive orgasm. All guys want to know how to make her come, how to make her orgasm, but this itself can be a trap. She must also take responsibility for her own pleasure. If a woman thinks that her lover is her orgasm machine and that 'he is giving me the orgasm -...

The Internal Clitoris

In over five million years of human evolution, only one organ has come to exist for the sole purpose of providing pleasure—the clitoris! The internal clitoris is part of an education most of us never had! There is no requirement for it in reproduction. It does not...

Clitoris Crop Circle Appears In Southern France

A giant 120-meter-long clitoris crop circle has suddenly appeared in southern France. But, aliens didn't put this in the grass. It's all part of a campaign to eradicate the code of silence surrounding female sexual pleasure. Something we are crusaders of here at Raw...

How To Stop Ejaculating!

Men are addicted to ejaculation and they don’t even know it. We haven’t been educated to what might help us grow as a species. Andrew Barnes, internationally acclaimed tantric expert says, “The world would be a happier place if men ejaculated less and women orgasmed...

Sexy Pictures [WARNING EXPLICIT]

Sometimes you're horny... or want some ideas... so check out these damn sexy pictures (and gifs)...                     If you are not masturbating now then please download our app magazine and get advice on your actual sex life - search 'raw attraction' on the app...

Be The Best Lover She Ever Had

Men – this is written especially for you so you can be the best lover she ever had. (Women – feel free to read it, comment, and of course share it with your boyfriend/male friends…) Imagine for a moment…  You’re on your way over to meet this woman you’ve been dating...

Oral Sex (For Her). 9 Tips To Enjoy Oral Sex.

Note - after you've read this make sure your partner reads the how to eat pussy article so that everybody is winning with oral sex! It's OK – you're not the only one who finds oral sex a little awkward. In fact, having your partner go down on you can be really...

Oral Sex Positions

Enjoy these oral sex positions! Oral sex is a gift from the Gods. It could be our favorite thing. Ever. Now you can enjoy it in all these different positions! We love these positions for men and women to enjoy oral sex. Use these tips to take these positions to the...

Acupressure For Lovers

Using Acupressure to heighten your sexuality can be satisfying and rewarding in many ways. This article introduces you to the depths of traditional Chinese sexuality and how to stimulate acupressure points to build sexual energy, relieve stress and enhance intimacy....

Orgasmic Meditation. What You Need To Know.

I met with a good friend of mine in the winter of 2012, who mentioned he had been going to orgasmic meditation classes. The following conversation was something akin to this: Me: You’re doing what? Him: Orgasmic meditation. It’s where you go up, down, up down on a...

Women Are Not Getting The Orgasms They Deserve

You can blame it on hook up culture. You can call out a sex-ed epidemic, or invoke the wild mystery that is the female body, but when the pants and the inhibitions drop, all that really matters is that women are not having the orgasms they deserve. Orgasm inequality...

My Ex-Husband Paid Me For Sex

Stacey was married to Robert in 2006 (names changed for privacy purposes). Within a year and a half, Robert started paying for sex. Sex had become disconnected. There was pain during sex for Stacey. They were good friends, there was some kind of attraction, but there...

Better Orgasms? Use Sound! Be A Screamer!

Would you like better orgasms? The British lord William and his wife, lady Mildred, are having their monthly intercourse on a Sunday afternoon, just before their afternoon tea. They didn't know much about having better orgasms (or full body orgasms) and how to use...

Why Some Men Hate Female Sexual Power

A friend of mine said the other day, “If you don’t love sluts, then you don’t love women.” It got me thinking, why don't all men accept empowered, sexually liberated women? In a young man’s friendship group, there are often twisted and sadistic things that happen. On...

I Have A Numb Vagina. What Do I Do?

I recently interviewed a woman who told me she has never had any sensation in her vagina and this has been the case since she first had sex aged 19. That is a long time to have a numb vagina. She is now 37 and has finally reached a breaking point in wanting to find a...

The 4 Cornerstones of BDSM

ith Fifty Shades of Grey being the best-selling paperback of all time, BDSM is the acronym on everyone’s lips right now. As I argued in my article in the November edition of Raw Attraction, Fifty Shades of Grey is not a good way for this...

Rape Fantasy Phenonmenon | Who Has Rape Fantasies?

It’s always the same. The topic of rape fantasy comes up in a workshop and a palpable sigh of the relief ripples through the circle, as each woman realizes she is not alone. A study in the Journal of Sex Research has estimated that up to 57 percent of women have...

The Ultimate Kinky Sex Position (For HIM)

Looking at the image above, you are probably thinking - how does he penetrate her from that angle? Well, he can! This position is dedicated to spanking HIS ass! This is most definitely a female dominant, male submissive position. Ladies... You can start this position...

Full Body Orgasm (NOT ONLY FOR WOMEN!)

What is a full body orgasm? You might be wondering. This type of energy work enables men and women to connect to their body’s sexual energy system and to let go of resistance to experience more bliss in their life. This is about my experience at a fully body orgasm...

How To Have A Hallucination Orgasm

The doubt is probably seeping through your mind as you read the title of this article, “How much acid did he take before bringing himself to climax?” Fair question, every one of my friends has asked me the same thing! First of all, I wasn’t having sex. I was on a body...

How To Be Better In Bed For Her

It’s now the men’s turn to find out what how to be better in bed for her after we discovered how to be better in bed for him. We asked some top tantrikas, love journalists and some ‘regular’ women how to be better in bed. Here is what they said: Elaine Young, 41...

Kink. A Lesson In Surrender.

 recently was in Prague attending a kink workshop. The workshop was run by London Faerie and Ruby May, both experts in the field of kink and BDSM. I came into this not knowing a lot about kink. I thought it was this weird thing where...

How To Control Your Ejaculation

This article is based on an interview conducted and recorded with Israel Kanner on November 14, 2013. Israel is a Tel Aviv-based coach who teaches clients to achieve self- understanding and mastery of life through the body. Website: www.israelkanner.com. Full...

Orgasmic Bliss For Women

The female orgasm goes so far beyond a few brief seconds of bliss - the brain can exist in orgasmic states of ecstasy for prolonged periods of time. And even in our sexually liberated era, the quick explosion that most of us are experiencing sexually is only a tiny...

How To Be Better In Bed For Him

How to be better in bed for him. In this awesome guide we asked seven sexually experienced men what it takes to get them hot under the collar about a woman in the bedroom. Here is what they said! Guys, if you want your guide go to the How To Be Better In Bed For...

What Is Your Relationship To Sex?

When guys are in their teenage years, they start to associate ‘being cool’ with getting laid. Haven’t lost your v-plates at school yet? Uh oh… you’re not in the cool gang. Getting laid was the coolest thing one could do and it seemed as if it was the only way to...

How To Have A Threesome (And Enjoy It!)

Every week I ask the participants of my sex and desire group to name their top unfilled fantasy and every week half of them blurt out, “A threesome!” But, how to have a threesome that is successful? That is the question. Ah, yes… the ménage a trois. That mystical yet...

How To Give A Blowjob [THAT WILL BLOW HIS MIND]

How To Give A Blowjob After our how to eat pussy article, we thought we better do one to benefit the guys. In this interview with Ella, we speak about how she learned her expertise on how to give a blowjob that blows his mind. Ella, tell us about your relationship and...

Prostate Sex. How To Have Prostate Orgasms.

Charlie Glickman PhD has been a sexuality educator for over twenty years. He teaches workshops on a wide range of topics, including sex-positivity, prostate sex, sex & shame, gender & masculinity, sexual orientation, communities of erotic affiliation, and many sexual...

How To Eat Pussy Like A King!

How To Eat Pussy In this article on the art of pussy eating we interview our resident lesbian on how to eat pussy like a king (or queen!) If you need help pleasing the guys, don't forget our how to give divine a blowjob article 😉   Lizzie, is there more than one-way...

How To Become A Submissive

Lily Black is an alternative model from London, Ontario in Canada. She enjoys reading, doing puzzles, playing sports - primarily basketball, watching movies, and just about anything outdoors. Lily is also a submissive. Hi Lily, tell us about the dominant/submissive...

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